That love is blind, right? It turned out that this phrase is true as well. Because usually people who are in love is likely to "blind". they often forget the basic things that really is important to note. so, make friends again Falling in Love, there are 10 mistakes that are often done when someone is falling in love:
1. Creating a relationship without building a friendship. When you're in love affection we must be very deep. But do not forget to take some time to learn or pay attention to what is desired by the couple. Do not just focus on the physical, also set aside time to study his personality. ultimately be more interesting personality than anything else.
2. not honest with yourself. Often people are in love ang giving an excessive tolerance limits to their partners. As an example, if the he made a mistake, we act as if it never happened iti and pretend that everything was fine. Padaha; precisely those musical could be a time bomb ready to explode and threaten the sustainability of our relationship. Instead, the slightest mistake, try to speak from heart to heart.
3. Cool with yourself. Most people often forget to consider themselves as long as there is 'someone special'. Naturally, too, people who are in love is to always be alone. As a result the people around us will feel ignored and finally we unknowingly, with their relationship began to stretch. In the future, this situation will be bad. Why? Because we will be in stamp 'kuper' by the surrounding environment, will be saturated with a partner and if it's relationship with the spouse did not run smoothly, do not have a vent dream
4. Too dependent. It is wrong if the happiness we feel 100% because of the he. We may fall in love with anyone, but that does not mean that person can make us happy 100%. Do not focus your entire life and focus only on one individual, because it means we will close the insights and opportunities for ourselves to be better.
5. Love takes time. Often we forget the important points on this one. Too soon to start a relationship is not very well know, because we may not know the characters well spouse. For this reason, should give enough time for yourself to know the he's closer.
6. Too focused on sex. We must realize that no one is happy to be a sex object. Do not make sex a priority in their relations. So, focus attention to building a solid fabric of romance and make a plan and clear objectives with him.
7. Dating without clear objectives. Dating is a fun and atifitas fun. But if we do not have a clear goal sooner or later it will make us feel tired, either physically or mentally. So, how much better first ask yourself what really we are looking for and what we want from prospective partners.
8. Do not fragile. Although we love would be willing to surrender completely to the couple, it's no guarantee that he will be faithful and will never leave us. Remember! For whatever love we have for him, still maintain the principle.
9. Prioritize physical beauty. This is one that often happens when we fall in love. Generally physical beauty to be the main priority rather than inner beauty. Whereas inner beauty is far more important, useful and long lasting than physical beauty.
10. Re making the same mistake. Before starting a new relationship is useful to first introspect and look back on our mistakes. That way, we can learn to not repeat it again in the future.
so, for which again the same approach again boyfriend or a new couple, do not let this mistake happen and make your partner so ilfeel
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